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From Chunky to Hunky
When people discover that I used to weigh a whopping 260lbs I’m asked the same question, “How’d you lose the weight?” I covered in great detail HERE how I gained the weight and ultimately what inspired me to lose it. I’ll summarize by saying that I simply fell into the typical traps of domestication. I [...]
Money’s on the Table
Feeling happy and utterly intoxicated, this time with not a drop of alcohol in sight! What’s changed since we last spoke, you might ask…lots and very little all at once. Bex and I went to our second therapy appointment and this time we actually got to talk about our issues with my bisexuality – like [...]
First Sobriety
Months later, my sponsor at the time answered the question “why me?” in the form of “why not?”. I had expected God to come down from the heavens to rescue ME. I see now that God will do for me what I can’t do for myself. And going to rehab and surrendering to my disease [...]
Bisexual Parenting
People like to hear about our kids. Being two bisexual parents I guess we’re unique in that our approach to parenting has changed dramatically since we’ve come out to our offspring. It’s changed only in that we’re slightly less conservative around the house. We allow a degree of cussing, more open conversation, and I’ll joke [...]
You’ve got to share it, so you dare it Then you bare it and you tear it
After last nights post I totally listened to She Bop on repeat. And I tell you I had a crazy urge to bop. In these wonderful progressive times it’s always striking to see how we haven’t really come that far at all. It’s crazy really. We have TV shows focusing on queers (well [...]
Farwell
Hello.
It is with a heavy heart and much cowardice that I write this post today. Even as we speak my body is violently fighting each word that I type, so I should but cannot promise that this will be quick. This will be my last post. I’m no longer going to write This Boy or any other blog for that matter.
I started this blog in anticipation and excitement with a notion that my life would become adventurous and exciting, much like the bisexual stories I read on other blogs. I grew out of what I read, what I wrote and
Let’s move on
Hi. I just wanted to say hello. Yesterday’s post I’m afraid was one of my low points and an opportunity for me to melt for a moment. Having said that I worry about how my expressions of sadness come across or may affect you guys for whatever reason. I ponder as to whether or not I should share such things sometimes. I’m good though, I’ll be fine and everything is going to be alright, this I trust to be true. I’m sorry that this kinda came from left field and I hope that you can disregard my melty moments just
Release
Please don’t mind me. I want to let go of something and I just need a moment to finish wrapping something up before I put it away. I spent most of the weekend feeling like my marriage was over. The past few weeks have been good between Bex and I. Great actually. We interact, have fun times, laugh, cry, share, discuss… even have sex, make love… fuck. The Spring weather has been beautiful, so much so that I lose sleep further cementing my under eye circles just to see the sunrise and sunset. I’m loving my life, finding my place
I’ll take two!
SIGN ME THE FUCK UP! Lol The other day I tweeted about being obsessed over a porn clip. Obsessed is too strong of a word, but I can’t think of another. I saw this on someones Tumblr and well… I couldn’t stop thinking about it. It’s a clip… well I’ll just let you see what I’m talking about.
Behind the scenes- Lust Puppies <- (PORN) I self titled that because in my opinion, those two guys look like-well… puppies. The clip is five minutes long but it touched me in all the right places. Actually it got me off for many reasons,
Say what???!!!
I’ve stumbled across something. My mind is going through these cycles of being aroused for long periods of time, physically erect at times, but mainly it’s mental. There are sensations that I can’t explain, a mood of general happiness, excitement and being somewhat overstimulated and I’ve been enjoying everything. Actually sometimes I worry if I don’t have some kind of brain tumor or something pressing on these areas in my brain. Paranoia aside, it’s like all my hormones, desires and senses have been activated and springtime is bring some physiological oddities my way.
It’s the strangest thing. Earlier I had written about a feeling like
Earth shattering
My head is cracked and I ponder sometimes if I’ve gone off the deep end. I’ll try to get this out without sounding more insane than I already gather that I am. Do y’all remember when I was bitching about not feeling connected and needing that intensity during sex that I theorize others get from it? The ecstasy, desire, fulfillment that I was lacking… well someone must have been paying attention because I’m getting it in droves.
The frequency to which I’m having sex with Bex (wife) has increased slightly, possibly because we see each other less often… but the intensity, the feeling of pleasure and
Southern guy
Quite often I criticize my writing skills because of how often I use personal pronouns in my blog posts. Cringing at the sight of every “I, Me, My” so and and so forth is getting quite tiring, so fuckit. It’s my personal blog about me and my sex life (or lack there of) so I’ll be narcissistic self involved all over the page with your mouth wide open and everything . With that said…
Hi! It’s been quite some time hasn’t it. There’s so much to say and I haven’t the fondest fucking clue where to begin. I guess that I should start with
Y’all don’t give a shit
Lol not an accusation…
Video after the jump!
What’s it to ya?
What is sex? More importantly what is sex to you? These questions are kind of rhetorical but keep in mind that they are being asked for genuine answers, I’m reaching out to you to ask you (to reply to me) what does sex do for you? Weird that I ask such a thing right? Therapy never gave me the answer to this question and well, I don’t really have enough friends to get a general consensus about what sex means, I’ll explain why I’m asking because it’s starting to feel a bit confusing.
I laid in bed this morning, my first
You got this!
Unemployed no more! Gonna try to make this as short and sweet as possible. This Boy got a job!!
I cannot even begin to express how blessed, validated and fortunate I feel.
Life is taking a turn for the better and I feel a little stronger for having survived, persevered and kept my shit together, as falling apart was one of the things that I feared would occur with my layoff.
Yay!
courtesy of sxc.hu
